NEW REVIEW: Feeding Your Family’s Soul

NEW REVIEW: Feeding Your Family’s Soul:

When I was a child, my family did not gather around the dinner table to share life together. Sure we ate at the same time, but on most nights, it was at the kitchen counter with the evening news blaring on the TV. When I visited my aunt and uncle’s home, I savored the commraderie around the dinner table—dishes being passed around, conversation flowing, even clean up and the rotation of chores was a novelty that I secretly wished was part of my normal routine.

When my husband and I married and started our family, dinnertime became very important to us. I don’t recall us talking about how we would gather together; we just did it. Perhaps my childhood experience unconsciously made dinnertime sacred to me. I am grateful that both of us knew the significance of coming together at the end of the day to pray, talk, and share a meal together.

When our children were small, conversation wasn’t very deep or insightful, but it was a chance for Greg and I to check in with each other after a long day. As more children joined us around the table, it became important to share highlights of the day. It gave the children a chance to share the spotlight, and it helped us connect the dots regarding what was reallygoing on at school and among friends.

We recently entered a new phase in our family life. Our two oldest daughters have started playing volleyball in the fall, and our family dinnertime has certainly been affected. Late-afternoon and early-evening games require us to eat in shifts. It can be tricky to have dinner ready for half of the family, when I am at a game. Missing out on the one time of the day when our entire family can be together can throw the rest of the evening off, too, since dinnertime is often the transition into our bedtime routine.

Thankfully, volleyball season has an end date, and our regular routine will return in about a month. However, this season of hit-or-miss meals together reminds me of the importance of the everyday dinnertime tradition and how all families need to fight to preserve it.

image

In her new book Feeding Your Family’s Soul: Dinner Table SpiritualityDonna-Marie Cooper O’Boyle gives families a companion in the fight to preserve dinnertime togetherness. In it, she shares 53 conversation starters for each week of the year. Not only do the chapters give parents ideas on how to shape dinnertime conversation, they include wisdom from the saints, prayers, Scripture quotes, questions, and delicious recipes to prepare together.

Each week, the family will learn about an aspect of the Catholic faith through storytelling and discussion, which will allow children (and adults alike) to ask questions and seek understanding. If a family has some extra time on Saturday and Sunday to introduce the week’s theme, it will provide a springboard for continued conversation during shorter, weekday meals.

This book can be utilized in a number of ways. A family could easily begin with Chapter 1 and go through the book in order. Or a family could skip around the book and focus on the chapters that line up with the liturgical calendar. For example, Chapter 4 on “The Communion of Saints” could be highlighted the week of November 1, when the Church celebrates All Saints Day, and Chapter 47 on “Why Catholics Honor the Blessed Mother” could be read and discussed during the month of May, which is dedicated to Mary. In addition, if parents want to focus on a particular virtue with their children, such as mercy, they could easily incorporate the corresponding chapter (Chapter 11 on “Learning Mercy from St. Faustina Kowalska”) to help that teaching along.

I am really excited about incorporating Feeding Your Family’s Soul into my family’s dinnertime conversation. Especially after this fall’s volleyball season, it will get us back on track with connecting to and conversing with each other on a daily basis. I am confident that the stories, questions, and prayers will enhance our family’s prayer life and extend our shared experience into other parts of the day.

If Feeding Your Family’s Soul is a book you’d enjoy adding to your spiritual library, I am pleased to give away three copies, thanks to Paraclete Press. To enter the giveaway, simply fill out the Rafflecopter giveaway below. I will pick three winners next Friday, Oct. 7, the Feast of Our Lady of the Rosary.

[Visit the blog here to enter the contest and to see more.]

2 thoughts on “NEW REVIEW: Feeding Your Family’s Soul

  1. I’ve been reading and praying together with your book, “The heart of Motherhood”, since 2006. I met you when you came to visit and speak to us at St. Edward the Confessor, in New Fairfield, CT. You are truly an inspiration, and prayerful leader.

    Your new book looks awesome, and I will surely be picking up a copy soon.

    Thank you for your continued service and prayers for all the families in God.

    I now live in Louisville, KY, and still have your book on my nightstand. My oldest son is in college, in WesConn, CT and lives and works there still. My youngest is a sophomore in high school here in Louisville. I continue to pray for them and receive blessings for them through prayer. My oldest is working hard to make it on his own, as he doesn’t want to move here to Louisville. My youngest is an honor student but is trapped in the world of video games all day. My husband is a workaholic, fearful of never enough money. I’ve worked p/t teacher assistant, but am changing to work something else in corporate, or sales. Either to gain more money, or more time. I havn’t decided yet. I am very said to leave the public schools, but there were too many negative vibes from some of the teachers. I still continue, however, and love to teach catechism, here in Louisville, at St. Gabriel the Archangel. Even though there is continued challenges and strife in my family, I pray for guidance and peace, in my home and home of others!

    I thought of you and how awesome it was that Mother Theresa is now a saint. She was canonized on my birthday too. I feel truly blessed to have known you and your teachings of Motherhood, and prayer.

    With much love and blessings,
    Colleen Nunziata

    • Dear Colleen,

      It is so nice to hear from you! I have fond memories of speaking at St. Edward the Confessor parish. I am glad to have met you there. And now you are evangelizing in Louisville, Kentucky! I’m glad to hear that you have been teaching faith formation. The kids really need solid teachers. Who knows? Maybe I will speak in your area sometime in the near future. Keep an eye on my appearance schedule and newsletters in which I often mention where I will be speaking.

      I pray for peace and direction within your family in the areas you mentioned. May God bring direction and grace.

      I’m glad you like the looks of my new book “Feeding Your Family’s Soul.” You can purchase from this website if interested in a copy. There have been some contests for a free copy and there will be one coming up by Paraclete Press on Goodreads, I believe.You can see a youtube video of a show I did with Fr. Andrew Apostoli about this book and the family right here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pnmU7Xu7Oa4 Also, I have a new website that you can check out when time allows: http://www.feedingyourfamilyssoul.com It will have information about this book plus tips for families, and even recipes!

      Thank you for your kind words about my book The Heart of Motherhood. Since then I have written many other mothering books. And, yes, how wonderful that Mother Teresa is now canonized. May she pray for us all! God bless you, Colleen! Please keep me and the ministry in your prayers. I will be praying for you!

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *